Overweight people and tight clothing

First of all I want to make it clear that this blog is not directed at any individual in particular nor is it meant to offend overweight people. I will mainly focus on ladies, as they are the ones that are always on the wrong side of fashion law . I understand that overweight people are people who have self esteem and are comfortable enough in their own skin that they just wear what they want. They do it because they are the owners of their bodies and they want to feel good in it.However i feel that sometimes they take it a little too far.Here is why...

Whenever i walk around the city,i always bump into unbearable and unpleasant sights of fat people in skimpy clothing.I always see ladies in particular who are clad in tight dresses and  look absurd with huge bellies almost spilling out of their tight fitting tops and dresses. If you have ever seen how they make sausages then you would know what I am talking about.

If you are overweight,you should know the areas of your body that draw too much attention and then make an effort to buy clothes that will cover those areas or at least not draw attention.You do not want a situation where a plus size woman tries to fit into a Paris Hilton dress.A lot of people think that by wearing clothes that are a size smaller or tight fitting,will make them slimmer.NO,this makes it worse,you are actually making yourself look fatter because all the humps and bumps on your body are visible.We do not want to see the loads of junk in your rear.No thank you..Now this is a problem because instead of enhancing your appearance,you are now getting more than what you were bargaining for-a perveted man's fantasy.!

I am not saying that women should not wear what they want; on the contrary, they must all wear what makes them feel comfortable. However, I don't understand those who wear certain clothes to cause attraction when they can guess that it only works against them. Why not enhance your strong aspects instead? Trust me when I say this, fat women in skimpy clothes appeal to perverted men, it is every man’s fantasy to have a fat girl but in reality your dressing really doesn’t appeal if it looks absurd.Showing off your behind doesn't necessarily equal automatic sexiness.

Why not go for clothes that get you less attention? We all want to have that dress that says “Hey look at me” but it shouldn’t come at the expense of your imageI have an overweight friend of mine who says that they were skimpy clothing because those clothes used to fit, and they feel if they go out and buy bigger clothes, they will get bigger and out grow those as well. The figure wearing tight clothes will remind that they need to lose weight.In as much as medicine doesn’t taste good it is a remedy we all eventually will have to gorge down our throats.

Have you ever come across an overweight  man wearing tight jeans? Barely,because they know it will draw unnecessary attention and it is not comfortable as well.It is a sight one would rather go for the rest of their life without seeing.
 
So my advice to you ladies is that,please dress according to your body size and spare yourself the humility.Buy age-appropriate clothing . Here's a good rule of thumb: If someone 20 years younger or 20 years older than you would also be shopping in this department, then readjust. You don't want to look too young and seem like you're trying to hard, but you also don't want to buy clothes that age you.
My grandmother always says that fat people wear tight clothes because they just seek attention.Do you want to be put in this category of people?No i don't think so.There you have it ladies and gentlemen.